What You Want is Coming
(Old Post— 2022)
What if fairy dust did exist?
What if it has been in front of you this whole time but you refused to see it? What if being an adult and having grown up, becoming disillusioned with the world was actually a handicap to your potential?
You can have it all. Everything you want and more can be in your hands in as little time as you allow yourself to truly believe that this can happen. It is not easy because everyone around tries to push a certain agenda of what reality looks like. But, it is definitely possible if you listen to yourself.
The game we are playing called life is simply a creation game.
We can co-create with the universe what we feel like. It will have its challenges, as any good game does. It will have ups and downs. Depending on who you are, it can become as hard or as easy as possible. Are you listening to who you are when you do things? Are you understanding your desires clearly enough?
There are a couple ways in which we can get clear on understanding ourselves and our desires. They consist of getting rid of distractions. A good journal prompt for this is: what is draining my energy? Ask yourself this every day and put the answer on your notes app, on your phone. This idea came to me by a guy named Struthless on Youtube. He makes great videos on self-development and growth.
Once you have established what it is that drains your energy, make a list of the opposite. What gives you energy? What makes you feel recharged and light on the inside? Make that list. Once you have found your answers, you will replace one of the bad habits for a good one. For example, in my list social media was high up (just like Struthless, funny enough). I decided to delete all my socials and instead focus on reaching for my Kindle or a book every time I got the itch to go on socials.
You can figure out what drains your energy easily. If it makes you feel bad and it is not an obligation, it has got to go. Screens tend to be one of the top culprits of this phenomenon, cut them out. In order for your head to get clearer, you need to feel as light as possible. I am not saying be happy all the time or anything like that, just try your best day by day to do more of what makes you shine and less of the doom and gloom.
Hobbies to try out.
Easy ways to get some energy and shed ugly feelings: meditation, sweating (yes, exercise), time in nature, eating well, and your favorite hobbies. These are fool-proof ways to raise your energy. I did not include gratitude on that list, but in meditation I like to start with things I am grateful for. It can be as simple as the croissant you ate this morning or as deep as your health. Health is something to always be grateful for.
Now that we are clear, the waiting game sort of begins.
Unless, you know what you want already; your dreams and goals. The ones that are aligned with your highest self, or the one that feels the best throughout the day, not the doom and gloom ones. If you know, good for you. If you don’t, waiting and trying things out will get you there.
How can we get everything we want? Once you are clear on what that is and who you are, it gets fairy-dusty from here. You have to 1. Believe it, and 2. Let it go.
Believe it
Believe that everything you want is already on its way to you. Your desire is like ordering an Amazon package. You do not question it, it simply comes. Yes, this believing thing takes a lot of practice because the mind doubts what it cannot see. But, just believe it is on its way to you. The partner, the job, the money, the cup of coffee, whatever you have decided you want.
2. Let it go
It is time to simply let it go. When you order an Amazon package you do not get all neurotic about when it will be at your door. This is funnier because you don’t have a deadline, but the UPS guy has it, it is coming. Once you put in your order just feel good about the way your life is right now because it is about to change. Feel the change and be grateful for this stage of where you are. Let go completely of what you desired and the fact it is even coming, simply enjoy and participate in the now. Act as if this thing is already here and you are having the welcoming party.
The more you do these two steps, the easier they get.
I suggest starting small. All this functions based on your beliefs, that is the real fairy dust. Have you seen those people that everything in life sort of works out for them? They get everything on their lap? This happens partly because they believe it to be possible. They think that a solution will pop out of nowhere and it does.
Instead of being jealous of these types of people (believe me, I have been there), join them in their adventure. They are co-creating with life. Their experience has been a bit easier because they always believed. It is our turn to believe we can have the things we want, the solutions, the abundance, and all of the goodies of this world.
I will highlight in step two of fairy dust magic, you must be happy in the now. The present moment is all that exists. If you get neurotic about something that is not presently in your life, you will delay the materialization of it. This is the universe’s funny way of teaching you gratitude. The universe wants you to have everything you want, if you are being miserable, it’ll assume that is what you want to be.
The universe will never say ‘you are wrong.’
The universe constantly tries to prove you right. If you feel ungrateful, it will keep giving you evidence of things to be ungrateful for. It is tricky so be careful with how you are feeling if it has been in a prolonged way. It is okay to feel your emotions, it’s not okay to respond to them negatively. The more positively you respond to your feelings, by letting them be felt and pass through, instead of holding on to them, the higher your vibration will go.
There is no getting rid of bad feelings. I get it, I am an emotional rollercoaster. You will see me crying a lot and happy a lot. I was blessed with a sensitive emotional response to virtually everything. I hide in my cave and lick my wounds in private, but I make sure to feel whatever it is I need to feel and let it go. I can always be grateful for these ‘ugly’ feelings showing me the way to what I want and the goodness in life.
I hope you get everything you want and more. You have everything it takes to make your dreams come true. Be sure to also want the journey, because that is what is all about. The destination will never make you feel the way you thought. However, if you are down for the process of creating the life you want, the universe will help you out always. All you have to do it believe this to be true and participate in the present moment, aka let it go.